Leave me quiet. Leave me alone. No, I don’t want to speak. I am good like this. Lips zipped. I don’t want to explain. I don’t want to clarify anything. Sometimes it is worthless to explain things. We feel tired of explaining. It is just useless. It is just known as ranting when you speak in anger. You throw bombs on others which don’t even explode. You utter words trying to explain things to people yet every little struggle you do to explain go in vein. Actually everything you say comes on you like a hoarded monster waiting for you to say a word and it will torture you with those words till you die. It is like digging grave for your own.
No use to make people happy when you know in order to make someone happy, you will have to offend someone else. This is life’s ritual or you can say custom of life. Everyone is dependent on other. If you think that you can do wonders on your own then you are wrong. It is your figment of imagination.
But what does it mean? You keep piling things on?? Waiting for the right moment to blow up? Meanwhile you keep burning inside? No, I don’t think this is the solution. Solution is simple yet we have made it difficult. We feel shame to do that act. We think this will make us small. But it is not like that. Take it in. Take everything inside. Clear all your mind and heart and bow down your head in front of Allah. Have brief conversation with The Almighty Allah. Who created you. Talk to Him. Tell him all the worries. Tell him, EXPLAIN him. And after elucidating EVERYTHING make HIM responsible to patch up things. Say it in your words “ALLAH do this for me” and believe HIM that HE will do and sit back, relax and see the magic.
Everyone in this world needs SILENCE. I bet everyone needs it in their life. Silence- which can let them discover their inner self. If someone needs 24 hour fun and party and don’t need any silence, then don’t think they are complete and have no worries. In fact these are the people who are actually afraid of themselves. They know that if they will spend time with themselves they will know who they are-THE REAL THEM!!
These days silence has rare existence. Life is so busy that no one has time for themselves. Try one thing switch off all lights, all noisy appliances. Don’t forget to switch your mobile phones off. Open each and every window and then LAST thing close your eyes. What do you feel? Clock’s tick tock? How simple it sounds. The sound of air? How contented?
This is the beauty of silence. Relate the same scenario with your life. Switch off all your worries the way you switched your irritating appliances off. DUMP people’s TANAY (tanay can’t be replaced by word criticism) , the way you dump your mobile by switching it off and most important BE OPTIMISTIC, the way you opened the windows, open your brain! Get out of everything! Then see you will be satisfied. You will actually live your life! And when you will Live your life…You will know who you are!
Now you say it isn’t easy to dump all worries etc. so let me tell you one thing, everything is easy until you want to do it willingly. We have complicated our lives with our own hands. Why to interfere in other’s business? Why to come in any arguments? To prove you are right?? To have justice? Tell me one thing. Especially after arguments how many times you come to a conclusion? I don’t know why people argument?? Sometimes it seems you are just in front of one who doesn’t even want to listen to you.
SILENCE is the best weapon which we rarely use. For example if you want someone to realize his mistake then seal YOUR lips. Sealing your lips is lot better than abusing or screaming.
Concluding my article by saying that it is essential for us to cultivate silence in ourselves. Our circumstances are already so stressful that we don’t need to take more stress when we are alone. We should take some time for ourselves, to discover ourselves, in this world of hurry, we have forgotten who we were and now who we are. We should evaluate our lives. It can be done just by sitting quietly in our rooms. Instead of watching movie or listening songs and absorbing it. Make movie of yourself and observe it to know about yourself!