Self-obsessed


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Why don’t people appreciate what they should? Why do they feel shame in expressing others quality. Why do they call “chowra” to the one who actually knows something. Who actually stand up for something. Why don’t they accept the fact that he is worth it. He has more experience than us. Why people don’t do anything themselves if they can do? Why don’t they encourage others participation. Why they think that involving others will make them small? Maybe because they feel insecure about it. They feel they will be ignored and someone else will rule them. Because they don’t have potential to make up a team and involve ideas. Because they are so self-obsessed.

Yes self-obsessed!! They cannot think of someone else ruling them. They are unable to come out of themselves. Neither they do anything nor they can see anyone else doing. Remember, to be successful you have to put your ego aside. There can be nothing as a ONE MAN SHOW. You can not achieve anything without the words such as appreciations, cooperation and compromises. You have to expand your mental ability. You have to put your “I AM” aside to give place to “YOU ARE” to be successful. You should empathize the person before blurting out even a word. You should ask yourself if you are compatible before degrading someone.

To speak is easy; To do take lots of effort!

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Fear OR Ego.


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People pretend. They do so to hide themselves from the world and from themselves. They do so to look strong in front of others but deep in their heart they know they are the most coward one. This is fear. They are the one who need counseling. They are the one who needs to explode. They need to burst before they die. But they don’t do it. This is Ego.

These people fear. They fear of illusions made by their minds. They are consistently pulling themselves down. They are burying themselves under a pile of burdens from which no one can pull them out. They act like a butterfly that ties herself around a stone and then tries to fly, unaware that she has to untie the rope to get rid of the burden she is carrying. It is EGO and her FEAR which is making her reluctant to take the step and to bring revolution in her life.

If we wish to be free to fly we must cut the string attached to the rock by releasing all the baggage weighing us down. We have to take the risk; we have to think of the bigger picture. We must crush the ego and learn to open our minds to all possibilities, we must learn to dump all old man-made beliefs and be willing to let go of how we once used to live. There is no point to live within you. Those beliefs belong to the old world of fear and ego. You must face the world. You have to do it! If you are willing to live to examine yourself in this world for the world hereafter. LET IT GO! Nothing is going to fancy you day after tomorrow because today if it is IMPORTANT for you then tomorrow it will be CHILDISH.

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Fear or Ego? Actually Fear is EGO!

Go where the path is leading you. Go where the pull is. Believe in yourself. Stop worrying about the world. Start worrying about the world hereafter. Remember the fear gets born when you’re afraid your ego might get bruised! Think over it.